This year has been rough I'm not going to lie. I had an infant. Got pregnant again. I had zapped energy.
I felt bad for baby 3 because he wasn't get to be a baby and basically forced to grow up faster then my eyes wanted to see.
I felt bad for children 1 and 2 because we missed out on so much the year before because I was sick.
But, now here we are in the present. I've got a groove so to speak. Baby 3 and baby 4 will be good friends. The jealously isn't as thick. Life isn't simple but I can still change 2 diapers and be out the door in 5 minutes (1 adult and 4 kids) if I need to (diaper bag stays in the car) and I was only in the neighborhood dropping off popcorn. But I did it.
So here we are vacation. What will really happen? Not sure but we have plans
Husband plans to:
Fully finish bathroom
Put a new kitchen sink in
Clean the garage
Spend a few hours doing what he wants
Wife plans to:
Purge items from house
Spend a few hours alone.